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15 Skincare And Makeup Mistakes To Stop Making Now

In beauty, makeup, skincare on March 2, 2026 at 12:00 pm

From the harshness of unblended highlight and contour to using dirty makeup brushes, chances are you have at some point or are currently making some major beauty faux pas.

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We all have our go to make up routines which include our favorite tips, tricks and tools. But it is definitely possible that our go to make up habits could be doing more harm than good to our skin, tools and overall look. That’s ok because below is a list of 15 common beauty blunders that you might not be aware of and the solution to help fix said faux pas.

  1. Using Makeup Wipes To Clean Your Face. I’m not sure when using wipes as the only way to sufficiently cleanse your face became ok but stop it. So you’ve had a long night out and you are too inebriated and too tired to actually cleanse your face – a makeup wipe can help you out until you get yourself together. But please don’t make this a habit – the most a makeup cleansing wipe can do for you is superficially wipe the day off of your face. It will not ever deep clean the surface of your skin let alone get deep down into your pores after a day of wearing sunscreen and makeup and being exposed to the environmental aggressors of dirt, debris and smog. Do your current and your future skin a favor and use a cleansing balm or oil followed by an actual cleanser for your skin type. If you prefer using a makeup wipe, use it a part of your pre-cleanse.
  2. Tugging On The Eye Area To Remove/Apply Eye Makeup And Skincare. We’ve all been there: you stretch/pull at the corner of your your eyes to apply your eye liner, roughly rub your eyes to take off your eye makeup or pull and rub on your under eye area to apply eye cream or concealer. Stop it! The under eye area is the most delicate area of the face. Think of it like this: your face is like construction paper and your under eye area is delicate like tissue paper. The under eye area shows the first signs of aging and rough and tumble pulling and tugging can help accelerate the aging process. When it comes to removing eye makeup, use a cotton round with a makeup remover. Apply to the eye area and hold for about 10 seconds to loosen any eye makeup and gently swipe away. When it comes to applying eye liner, apply in sections across the lid and be sure to use a formula that glides on smoothly. Don’t pull on the corner of your eyes. When applying under eye concealer and eye cream, use a brush and/or your ring finger and gently press/tap into the skin.
  3. Not Treating The Under Eye Area With Eye Cream/Serum Before Concealer. At this point, eye creams/serums should be a part of your skin care routine. If not, no judgement. Just start now. By prepping with skin care, you will find that your concealer will lay better on your skin. It also prevents your makeup from looking dry and cakey and you won’t have to apply tons to look even and highlighted under the eyes.
  4. Not Using Color Corrector. Have you ever applied under eye concealer or even foundation and found that the shade and tone wasn’t sufficient? As a matter of fact, some areas looked gray? That’s because you most likely need to color correct first. Color correcting helps to neutralize blue, purple and brown undertones in the skin so that your actual complexion product will read more accurately. It all goes back to understanding color theory where opposite colors on the color wheel are not only complementary but those same complementary colors also cancel each other out. For instance, if you are experiencing redness, you would use green to color correct before applying your concealer or foundation. If you have blue/brown tones under your eyes, you would use a corrector in the pink/peach/apricot spectrum, depending on your complexion range, to neutralize those tones before applying concealer or foundation.
  5. Not Cleaning Makeup Brushes Regularly. Have you ever gone so long with not cleaning your brushes that your brushes feel hard and somewhat stiff? When your brushes are dirty they don’t even perform the same and your make up doesn’t look as good as it could. More importantly, not cleaning your brushes is a great way to spread bacteria on the face. Can we say pimples? Anyway, using a brush cleaner not only cleans your brushes but helps to keep the bristles conditioned.
  6. Putting On Concealer Before Foundation. Foundation is just that – foundation. A base. It’s the building block for all of the other makeup you put on your face – aside from good skin care. When you apply concealer first, as you apply the actual foundation, you actually wipe concealer away from the very place you were trying to conceal. Instead, apply foundation first then stipple/bounce concealer on top wherever the discoloration is. You may also find that you won’t need as much concealer when you apply foundation first. When it comes to the under eye, this can be particularly helpful as applying foundation first can help balance and perhaps color correct tones before you apply concealer.
  7. Not Blending Your Harsh Highlight And Contour. Chances are you aren’t on stage but in real life – at work, school or the grocery store. The somewhat extreme highlighting and contouring that we see on our social media feeds works better for stage and maybe television with various lighting conditions but those harsh, unblended lines of demarcation can be quite unappealing in real life. Blend thoroughly for a softer look.
  8. Using Too Much Product To Mark Out Highlight And Contour. Or using too much foundation in general. Bottom line – it’s TOO MUCH PRODUCT and takes unnecessary amounts off time and effort to blend. Instead of plastering your face with foundation, highlight and contour shades in intricate designs, try applying your foundation first. Then apply your highlight color (1-2 shades lighter, maybe 3 shades if you know how to blend) in the right undertone then blend. Then go in with your contour color and blend. Apply an illuminator/highlighter if you so choose. Blend that as well. Then take a brush and lightly blend the entire face. This way you will look soft, blended and radiant. Not a colorful ashy mess. *note* Applying your highlight first will actually expose the areas that naturally recede for contour. It is also easier to blend a contour (darker color) into a highlight as opposed to the other way around.
  9. Not Using A Moisturizer Because You Are Oily. Not using at lease an oil free (controls oil production) or mattifying (prevents appearance of oil, makes skin more matte) moisturizer is actually making you more oily. When you don’t use moisturizer, your skin overcompensates for the lack of moisture in the skin. The oil in the skin is not a moisturizer and the skin becomes more unbalanced when you don’t moisturize which leads to more oily skin.
  10. Over-Washing Your Face. It is tempting to want to wash your face multiple times a day especially when you are oily and/or acne prone. However, just like not using a moisturizer when you are oily can have an adverse affect on your skin, over-washing your face can strip your skin, causing it to be dry, flaky and painfully irritated. You might also find that acne can get worse. When washing your face twice a day, consider using a mild low lather or creamy/oil cleanser for the morning and a cleanser for deeper cleanse for the evening to wash the day away.
  11. Keeping Expired Makeup. Sure you may love the many items in your make up collection but it is very important to make sure that what you are putting on your face is not expired. Not paying attention to expiration dates can not only cause lack of performance of your favorite items but can also be a breeding ground for skin irritation and possible infection. Learn more about makeup shelf life and expiration dates here.
  12. Over-Filling Your Eyebrows. Good eyebrows are one of the most important features in giving good face. Well groomed brows bring shape and structure to the face. When you have neat, beautifully shaped brows, you don’t necessarily need too much of anything else to look polished. It is recommended that you seek a professional to groom your brows. It’s one thing to have a natural full brow however filling in the brow too dark and over the natural shape can spell disaster. When filling in your brows, be sure to follow the natural shape of the brow and fill in only the sparse areas.
  13. Not Adjusting Your Foundation As You Age. It’s no secret that your body changes as you get older. This includes changes to your skin. What worked for you in your 20’s (i.e. powder foundation) may not work for you as you get older. Consider using liquid or serum based formulations that address dullness, fine lines, wrinkles, discoloration and dryness.
  14. Putting Makeup On Dry Skin. Not prepping the skin before makeup application. Your makeup reflects what is going with your skin. If your skin is dry, your makeup will look dry and cakey. You will also find that your makeup doesn’t apply smoothly to your skin. Be sure to prep with a good moisturizer and hydrating primer before applying your foundation.
  15. Putting Too Much Emphasis On Both Eyes And Lips. How you choose to wear your makeup is entirely up to you. However, consider focusing on one feature such as the eyes and let your other features play a supporting role with complementary tones, textures and finishes. Doing so prevents your look from becoming too overwhelming.

Have you made any of the mistakes listed above or do you make mistakes that weren’t even listed above? Leave a comment down below.

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5 Reasons Why Vitamin C Should Be A Staple In Your Skincare Routine

In beauty, skincare on November 15, 2024 at 3:47 pm

From brightening to anti-aging, Vitamin C Is your skin care superhero.

Have you ever looked in the mirror and been less than pleased with the way your skin looks?  Dull. Uneven. Uninspiring.  Sure you have a regular skincare routine that includes cleanser, moisturizer and sunscreen.  You may even use the occasional manual or chemical exfoliation.  All of that is great however you may still find that your skin needs more – brightening, lift, clarity and hydration.  What you need is a product that contains a key ingredient that will address the concerns you have and the ones you didn’t know you had.

That Key Ingredient Is Vitamin C  

We are all familiar with Vitamin C because of the foods, beverages, and supplements we take.  It is also what we turn to when we we not feeling well since it is a well known fact that Vitamin C helps to restore and keep your immune system strong. Vitamin C is also “responsible for the growth and repair of the tissues in all parts of the body” (1) and can aid in the prevention of certain diseases and disorders such as stroke and high blood pressure (2).  With all of the amazing benefits that vitamin C provides internally, how much more will your skin benefit from using this ingredient on a regular basis to make it better?

Vitamin C In Skincare

Vitamin C, whether in moisturizer or serum form is one of the most powerful ingredients in your skincare routine.  It is a multifaceted ingredient that does the heavy lifting for some of our more pressing skincare concerns and here’s how:

  • It is a powerful antioxidant with anti-aging benefits.  Antioxidants are ingredients that help fight free radical damage caused by environmental aggressors such as dirt, UV rays and pollution.  Free radical damage leads to photosensitivity, hyperpigmentation and wrinkles.
  • Helps with collagen growth/synthesis.  Collagen, which decreases with age, is a protein that lives in the deeper layers of the skin.  It is responsible for the structure and firmness of the skin as well as the connective tissues in the body.  Vitamin C helps to stimulate your body’s natural collagen production, thus keeping the skin firm.
  • Improves wound healing.  This ties back to collagen production and the fact that it is responsible for the connective tissue in the skin.  When you have an injury to the skin due to a scratch or even an acne breakout, Vitamin C will help with collagen production/synthesis to rebuild the structure of the connective tissue of the skin so that it is healthy again.
  • Helps to brighten the skin and leads to overall clarity.  Vitamin helps to regulate melanin production leading to overall evenness of the skin.  When you experience hyperpigmentation/discoloration perhaps due to injury or breakout, Vitamin C helps to inhibit the overproduction of melanin by inhibiting melanin synthesis.  This is done by “downgrading the activity of an enzyme known as tyrosinase.” (3) Vitamin C also helps to calm down redness.
  • Brightens dark under eye circles.  Depending on the root cause of the darkness, Vitamin C can be the answer.  For instance, if the darkness is caused by hyperpigmentation such as eczema, allergies or perhaps a late night, Vitamin C can help.  Unfortunately, if that darkness is hereditary (appearance of pooling or dark veins) Vitamin C will not help much.  In these cases, a color corrector and/or concealer can help.

What Are The Most Common Forms Of Topical Vitamin C?

The most common form of Vitamin C is l-ascorbic acid (LAA).  It is the most researched, the most popular and the most potent.  It is very effective in addressing a myriad of skin concerns.  There can, however, be a downside to using this highly potent form of Vitamin C because it is highly unstable.  This can lead to irritation such as itching, redness and burning and is most likely the reason why many steer clear of Vitamin C altogether.

There are other forms of Vitamin C which can be more gentle to the skin and help to alleviate some of the discomfort one may experience, especially when first starting out.  These forms include Sodium Ascorbyl Phosphate (SAP) and Magnesium Ascorbyl Phosphate (MAP).  The former, SAP is better tolerated for sensitive skin without necessarily causing irritation and purging.  SAP still contains antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties and can be helpful to people with acne or rosacea (4). The latter, MAP, which is a more stable form of Vitamin C, is great for hydration, collagen production and works for most skin types (5).

How To Use Vitamin C Correctly

When first introducing Vitamin C into your skin care routine (or any new skin care product for that matter), you want to start slowly. Consider using it every 2-3 days until you are able to use it daily.  Mix your Vitamin C serum into a moisturizer or use a Vitamin C infused moisturizer.  The best time to use Vitamin C is in the morning after cleansing and toning and before your moisturizer and sunscreen (if using in serum form).  Using Vitamin C in the morning benefits your skin because of the powerful antioxidants it contains to protect your skin against environmental aggressors.  It is important to follow up with a broad spectrum sunscreen to maximize the benefits of Vitamin C.

Serum vs Moisturizer 

When it comes to choosing a formulation of Vitamin C, it comes down to personal preference and skincare need.  Serums are usually more lightweight and have more potent ingredients.  Since the molecule of a serum is smaller, it will penetrate the skin more deeply to do more repairative work for concerns such as deeper lines and hyperpigmentation.  Moisturizers on the other hand are thicker and will do a better job of hydrating and nourishing the skin.

The Best Concentration Of Vitamin C

When looking for a Vitamin C skincare product – whether it be serum based or a moisturizer, there are several things to consider.  First things first, consider the concentration.  Concentration between 8%-20% is considered to be the most effective.  Anything below 8% may be ineffective whereas anything over 20% may cause irritation.  When searching for the right concentration of Vitamin C, look for ingredients that are included in the formulation such as Vitamin E, ferulic acid, glutathione, and hyaluronic acid.  These ingredients not only can boost the efficacy of Vitamin C but can also act as a buffer (Vitamin E, hyaluronic acid) against irritation and dryness.

How To Store Your Vitamin C Skin Care Products Properly

Because of the instability of most Vitamin C skin care products, it is important to look for packaging that is opaque and dark to protect the ingredients from light and air sources.  Not doing so will degrade the product thus rendering it ineffective.  You can actually store your vitamin c products (as well as other skincare products) in a refrigerator for preservation.  Be sure to take it out a few minutes before use.  Also, as with any other skin care or beauty product, pay attention to expiration dates.

Paula’s Choice 25% Vitamin C + Glutathione Clinical Serum

Drunk Elephant C- Luma Hydrabright Serum

Ole Henriksen C-Rush Vitamin C Gel Moisturizer

Dr Dennis Gross Skincare Vitamin C Lactic Dewy Deep Cream

Sunday Riley C.E.O. Glow Vitamin C +Turmeric Face Oil

SkinCeuticals C E Ferulic

Supergoop Daily Dose Vitamin C + SPF

PCA Skin C&E Advanced Serum

Hyper Skin Brightening Clearing Vitamin C Serum

Naturium Vitamin C Complex Serum

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Learn To Relax: The Importance Of Having An Unwind Routine.

In lifestyle on November 27, 2023 at 12:00 pm
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Oftentimes we hear of the importance of having a morning routine. “Wake up before 5am” and “Rise and Grind” are some of the popular phrases we hear when it comes to the goal or desire of being your best self or being a top performer. And although you may not get up at 5 am every morning (or ever), it is important to have a routine that is energizing, productive, gives direction and sets the tone for the day – no matter what time you wake up in the morning.

But what happens at the end of your day after you are done thinking, doing and being? Chances are you are exhausted and have not even given another “routine” a second thought. But let’s not think of it as another routine or thing to do. Think of it as prioritizing your wellbeing.

The Importance Of Prioritizing Your Well Being

Words like “self-care”, “mindfulness” and “wellness” continue to be the big buzzwords as it relates to taking care of your mind and body. The wellness industry and the multitude of businesses and products that fuel the industry, might, in some cases, feel like this wellness concept is just marketing – a ploy to take your money. Even if that is the case, it’s still worth noting that becoming more mindful of your personal health and wellbeing is important. So whether you work from home, a physical workspace, or are searching for employment, it’s a good idea to consider creating an “after hours” wind down routine.

What is an “After Hours” Wind Down Routine?

Think of your after hours wind down routine as a group of behaviors or activities that help you to create boundaries between your work and personal life. Something intentional to help you disconnect. For instance, many people have found that it is important to have something to look forward to after a long day at work. That may include meeting up with friends at your favorite bistro, going to a bookstore or stopping by your favorite specialty shop for a bottle of wine and charcuterie for a quiet evening at home. Whatever activity you choose after a long day can give you a chance to decompress, re-focus and re-center yourself. Choosing some specific fun and fulfilling activities can also help you have more sound sleep.

Below are some helpful tips to help you create an evening unwind routine:

Be Intentional About Creating Boundaries.

This refers to physical and mental spaces or boundaries. Creating separate spaces in your home for various activities is important especially if you work from home. If you don’t have a lot of space, it can be a section or small area in a room. If work is outside of the home this might be easier, especially if you don’t have to bring your work home with you. If you have to stay connected to work outside of regular business hours, find a way to disconnect away from your work space, even if it’s for 15 minutes: meditate, do some deep breathing, listen to a short podcast or read something uplifting or inspirational. Also, if you work from home, create a separate space for work. This could be a small desk or table. If your office is your couch, be intentional about putting work things away before you unwind or move onto the next activity for the evening. Consider a nice organizer/cabinet to store everything neatly and out of sight.

Clean Up Your Space. Put Your Items Away.

Have you ever noticed that when your living space is chaotic and messy, you feel out of sorts, dazed and confused? Not on your A-game? Get into the habit of returning your living space back to zero before going to bed. This means taking 10 minutes or so to put things away that you have used – books, blankets, technology, dishes. There is nothing more dehumanizing than to wake up (or come home to) a messy home. Furthermore, when you come home from work (or wherever you’ve been) hang up your coat, put your keys/purse/belongings in a central location. This prevents the morning scurry and confusion of looking for those important items that you use to help you navigate the day.

Shut Everything Off For A Few Hours.

Yes everyone is an entrepreneur, a hustler and needs to stay connected. But still – take an hour or so to disconnect. If an hour seems too long, try 10 minutes and gradually increase your time. This gives you a chance to regroup and/or unwind. This can look a little different if you have a family and/or a pet because everyone needs and wants your attention. Try creating boundaries with those you live with and get them on the same page with an unwind routine.

Have A Nighttime Self Care Routine.

Create a routine that you look forward to indulging in. Make shower/bath time more luxurious. Create a space that you love being in. Do you need to upgrade your bathroom decor? Maybe add some plants, pictures, candles and figurines? Perhaps new plush towels and new shower curtains. What products are you using to cleanse and care for your face and body? Invest in more luxurious and efficacious bath, body and skin care. And when applying your products, slow down. Take your time. This can be a wonderful part of your day because it makes you slow down and become more intentional with your thoughts and actions.

Make Sleep A Priority.

You should actually look forward to getting into your bed. Yes we live in a hustle culture and people are shamed for attending to the biological need for sleep which is important. Is your bed comfortable? What about your pillows? Are they fluffy and clean? What does your linen look and feel like? Is your bedroom even clean? Consider making some upgrades to your bedroom decor.

Change Your Clothes.

This is very important if you are working outside of your home. To move about your home (sitting on your couch, your bed, etc.) in your outside clothes isn’t sanitary. And if you use public transportation, your clothes and shoes should be taken off AT. THE. DOOR. You can also think of changing your clothes when you get home as a gesture of taking the day off. Doing so can also can help you to make that mind shift from day to evening. And when you change your clothes, take a shower and put on something comfy and nice – not what you wore to clean the bathroom. If you are enjoying a night in, consider wearing nice loungewear and fluffy slippers. Add some fragrance to elevate the entire experience.

Schedule Some Fun After Work Activities.

This can work even if you choose not to go out as much. Consider doing a weekly Zoom call with family or friends while you all eat a delicious dinner in your respective homes – like a virtual happy hour. Create a theme. Have a beverage. Or two. Other fun activities include starting a hobby or project. Start journaling. It doesn’t have to be everyday but make it something fun to look forward to.

Light A Candle.

Or several. At a time. Carefully. Investing in good candles that burn well and smell amazing will definitely shift the atmosphere of your living space. Lighting candles can signal your process of shifting gears for the evening. Be sure to use this candle specifically for the purpose of winding down – nothing else. Also use it in a place that you have designated for relaxation and not your work space.

In Conclusion

This is not an exhaustive list of activities and mindsets to create when it comes to creating an evening unwind routine. It’s all about using your imagination and resources to create a routine that works for you.

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