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How To Look Better In Your Next Video Call

In beauty, how to, makeup, skincare on May 18, 2020 at 9:25 pm

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It’s no secret that video has become a valuable tool in our technologically advanced society, especially during these strange times.  From FaceTime and Skype to the ever increasing popularity and use of Zoom, video is a great way to stay connected.

Now, more than ever, video calls are the go to tool for many of the things we do, from work to virtual happy hours and parties.  With that being said, how we look on video is just as important as the information that is being exchanged.  It usually doesn’t matter when we communicate via phone call, text and email but obviously, in video, people see you.  In most cases, when it comes down to work and even things like virtual dating, looks matter.  Think about it – how would you present yourself to your current or potential boss, client or even a romantic prospect?  You wouldn’t show up in pajamas or a dusty t-shirt or a face mask for your zits.  You, instead, would put your best face forward.  Again, looks matter so it’s important to look your personal best.  Also since many of us are currently stuck inside, that’s all the more reason to put on that lipstick, hair or outfit you’ve been wanting to wear.  So go ahead, you can still slay through that screen with these simple tips/reminders:

Lighting.  When you take a selfie, you usually make sure you show up in the best light.  The same goes for when you are doing a video call.  Natural light is the better option as it most flattering.  The key when using natural light is positioning yourself at the correct angle.  To catch the best light, sit facing the window (or other light source for that matter).  If the sun is particularly bright you can close the blinds a little or put up a white curtain to help filter the light.  On cloudy days you can sit more directly in the light source because your features won’t be blown out.  Whatever the case, be sure to not sit with your back to your light source which will cause your figure to be shadowy.

You can always add a light source if necessary.  Ring lights are very popular and can be found on Amazon (or eBay).  I’ve been using the Make Up Light for several years because I like the ability to customize the fixtures and the fact that that it breaks down quickly, making it easier to carry and can fit mostly in a large tote bag.

You can always use a regular lamp if necessary.  Remember to position it in front of you (behind your computer or other video source).

Sound.  Be sure that your sound is working, without feedback/echo.  This is especially important if you are a presenter or leading the meeting.  Usually the sound on your chosen device is sufficient however if you need something that works better, there are microphone options on Amazon (or eBay).

Setting.  Where you take your virtual meeting (or event) is just as important as how you look.  Choose an area free of excessive distractions.  If possible, set up at a desk or table with ample lighting and a comfortable chair.  Make sure that whatever people see behind you is clean, neat, organized and visually appealing.  Add plants or artwork to add dimension to your space.  If you live with other people or other people will be present in your space, make sure they know when you will be participating in your meeting/event and that they are aware that they should keep noise to a minimum or non-existent.

Position.  Make sure your device (laptop, phone, tablet) is positioned at face/eye level.  and make sure you have good posture.  This will help you to not look distorted and again helps to present you in the best “light” possible.

Wardrobe.  Although, for the most part, you will only be seen from mid chest upwards, it’s still important that whatever people see looks nice.  Choose flattering colors that will complement your skin tone and contrast nicely with your background as well as ensure the right fit for your clothing.  Keep prints to a minimum and be sure that what you are wearing is not too revealing.  A blazer and camisole/t-shirt/blouse is a no fail combination, as well as just a blouse or nice sweater.  It all depends on your work environment, dress code and expectations.  Don’t forget accessories like a simple pair of earrings and/or necklace to complete the look.  However, be sure to avoid noisy jewelry as that can be a distraction.

Makeup.  Whether you know very little about makeup or don’t care for it, the fact  remains that a polished look makes for a good impression.  Again, looks matter.  And not in a “I look like a supermodel” but more of a way in which you don’t look like you just rolled out of bed and was dragged behind a dump truck.  You don’t have to do the most, just follow the basics of giving good face – “flawless” complexion, soft yet well defined brows, lash lift, lip tint/color, sculpting and definition.

  • Flawless Complexion.  Since makeup is never a substitute for good skin, start with a basic skincare routine for your skin type (if you don’t already have a 50 step process in place) – cleanse, tone, moisturize.  Once you have those basics in place,  a primer is your next step.  A primer will keep your makeup up on longer and can help your makeup look better on your skin.  Next apply a lightweight tinted moisturizer or foundation with a beauty blender or foundation brush.  If you need more coverage you can  definitely choose a medium/full coverage foundation.  Dark under eye circles/hyper-pigmentation (acne scars, etc) is a common concern for many so don’t forget a concealer.  Follow up with a setting powder to lock everything in place and to cut down on shine.
  • Brows.  I cannot stress the importance of having good brows.  Brows are the architecture of your face and can make or break your look.  If  you have full brows already, all you may need to do is use a brow gel to tame and shape them.  If you have brows that are more sparse, there are a multitude of products that you can use from brow powder to pencil to fill in/create the perfect brow.
  • Eyes.  You don’t have to do a full smoky eye.  In most cases, eye liner and mascara will suffice.  If you want to give a little more,  you can always choose a color slightly deeper than your complexion in your crease to give a little more depth and structure to the eye by applying/blending with a crease brush.  Finish off with 2-3 coats of your preferred mascara.  For eyeliner, choose an off black or black/brown to define the eye shape and use a smudge brush to soften the lines.  These two color choices will define without looking too dramatic or harsh.
  • Lips.  First off, exfoliation and moisture is so important – whether you choose to wear lip color or not.  Speaking of color, you don’t have to do full on color – a lip tint can suffice if you don’t want to do the most.  But for everyone else, go ahead and  put on that bold bright beautiful color to liven things up.  Mattes are good choice because in many cases, depending on formulation/brand, there is minimal transfer.
  • Sculpting with blush.  Add a little blush to add warmth to the complexion and  to sculpt and define those cheekbones.

Hair.  Brush it.  Comb it.  Shave it.  Cut it.  Do whatever you have to do to make sure it looks nice and presentable.  Styling products are your friend.  Add accessories if you need to like a headband or a nice hair clip.  Chances are you have many of these things in your arsenal.  You just need to use them.

 

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Wardrobe Essentials Every Woman Needs In Her Closet

In fashion, style on July 18, 2019 at 7:40 am


Have you ever looked in your closet and felt like you had a closet full of nothing to wear?  Perhaps you had an interview or dinner to attend and an in a panic went shopping for the “right” outfit.  We have all been there.

Every season we are inundated with the hottest and newest trends off the runway that we are convinced we must have.  While there is absolutely nothing wrong with indulging in said hot trends, it is important to have key or staple items in your closet.  Doing so will be be the difference between feeling like you have nothing to wear and feeling (and being) ready for almost anything.  This concept is also helpful when building or updating your wardrobe and although staples items (and colors) will vary from person to person, the right pieces increase wardrobe functionality as well as creativity when planning outfits.  

Below are 19 essential pieces to add to your wardrobe if you don’t already own them:

  • Jumpsuit.  This one piece can be styled multiple ways, and, depending on the material, can be worn year round.  Pair it with a blazer and pumps/loafer for work or strappy sandals and a clutch for a night out on the town.
  • Lightweight Neutral Blazer.  A blazer can be worn with anything at anytime.  Great for layering over a sheath dress or for wearing with a t-shirt and jeans/skirt.  A tuxedo styled blazer adds instant elegance if you are heading out after work or if you prefer to wear something that is edgy yet professional.  If suits are not your thing, it can still be a good idea to invest in one because you don’t have to wear it together but you can instead take the pieces and incorporate them into other parts of your wardrobe to create other looks.
  • Denim Jacket.  Denim jackets are great for in between temperatures or for when you want an outfit to take on a more casual vibe.
  • Leather Jacket. There is nothing like a leather jacket to add a nice edge to your wardrobe. Leather jackets are great for fall weather and look great with a scarf and of course a great pair of sunglasses.
  • The LBD (Little Black Dress).  It goes without saying that having an LBD (or two) in your closet will keep you ready for a multitude of occasions.  Know your shape for the perfect silhouette.  Keep in mind that styles such as the wrap dress is simple yet elegant and is flattering on most body types.
  • Dark Wash Jeans.  Creates a look that is polished and can take you from casual to elegant depending on what you pair them with.  Keep it simple by avoiding distressed styles which can distract from a clean, polished look especially if you are in a casual “professional” setting.  Pair with a chic blazer or blouse for work and a sequinned top and stilettos for a night out on the town.  If you want an option that is more dressy, consider a high rise, flare leg silhouette in a more flowy denim material.
  • Basic White T-Shirt/Tank top/button down.  These are great foundation pieces that create endless options for anytime and anywhere.  In addition to your basic round or v-neck t shirts, add one in a silky material or with embellishment for a dressy look.  Other basic colors to include in your wardrobe:  black, grey, and cream.
  • Black trousers and black pencil skirt.  Both are great pieces to take you from work to play and can be paired with various tops and accessories.  Again it is important to know your shape to find your perfect silhouette.
  • Hats and Head Wraps.  These items aren’t only for not so perfect hair days but can be that one piece that takes your outfit to the next level.  Include styles such as a classic straw hat and fedora as well as head wraps in black, leopard and pops of color.
  • Kimonos.  Nothing takes a simple outfit like jeans/shorts and tank top to the next level like a kimono.  Explore a variety of textures, colors, and prints to include in your wardrobe.  Want to level up your look, add a belt, head wrap and a nice pair of shoes/sandals to make your look top notch.
  • Pump.  A simple pump can take you from work to play and can be paired with almost anything. A platform pump is a great middle ground and creates great structure for many looks, including wide leg pants.  Pointy toe pumps make the legs look longer and leaner.
  • Loafer. An excellent alternative if heels are not your thing or for when you cant take another step in those pumps.  Opt for loafers in various skins (alligator), colors such as oxblood or even leopard print which can add a little pizzazz to an otherwise neutral outfit.
  • Sneaker/Slip on.  This footwear choice can be a more casual or sporty/athletic alternative to the above mentioned loafer or an addition to your shoe wardrobe.
  • Tote Bag and Clutch.  A roomy, well constructed tote bag is essential for carrying your belongings while on the go.  A basic clutch is the perfect add on for when you don’t want to carry everything you normally carry in your tote or for when you need to make that quick transition from work to play.

What are some of your favorite wardrobe staples?  Do you have go to pieces to keep you looking stylish or do you find that you have some opportunities in your wardrobe?  Please share your thoughts below.

Why Backpacks Are The Ultimate Style Accessory

In fashion, style on August 20, 2018 at 11:00 am

Remember back in the day around this time of year the excitement you felt when it was time to go back to school shopping?  It was the time you got to refresh your wardrobe with new clothes and cool footwear.  You also got to purchase new school supplies such as pens, pencils, markers and notebooks to give you a fresh start with your scholastic endeavors.  And what better way to hold all your school supplies than to get a cool new backpack – the ultimate back to school accessory.

Backpacks have long been associated with the necessity of carrying school supplies and  outdoor activities such as camping and hiking but have now evolved into stylish must have accessories.  And while you may or may not be in school as an adult, backpacks are highly functional and a great alternative to regular purses, tote bags and briefcases.  Backpacks give you hands free navigation while on your way to wherever, taking you from work to play.  And, unless it’s mini sized, backpacks fit everything you need to get you through the day – laptop/tablet, keys, comfy shoe alternative, a book, and lunch.  Also, because they are a functional style accessory, like shoes and watches, you can have more than one.

No longer only available in the standard colors of black, green or navy canvas, there are many styles, colors, fabrics and details to accommodate your lifestyle and personality.  Check out these smart sophisticated styles which are sure to take you places.

Forever 21 Houndstooth Satin Backpack $24.90.  Once reserved for suits and shoes, this houndstooth pattern is a great look for the fall.  The front flap and top zip closure are accented by gold tone hardware.

Aldo Acareria $60.  The chevron pattern, grey animal print motif and gold chain zipper are the details that make this backpack a standout and will complement any outfit you wear.

H&M Bag/Backpack $79.99.  Perfect for those who want options because this backpack also converts to a bag with the handles that can be concealed.

Eloquii Modern Backpack $99.90.  This stylish backpack features cruelty free PU material which looks like just like leather.  The front zip pocket gives easy access to items like your keys and phone while the double zipper round top closure opens wide for easy storage and access of your other belongings.

Matt & Nat Kiara $160.  This beautiful full sized, round structured backpack has feet to prevent rolling, and a nice sized handle for carrying.  A great vegan option with adjustable straps, this backpack has a smartphone pocket for storage so you wont have rummage through your bag looking for your phone.

Furla Woman’s Candy Backpack $172.  Add a little fun to your day with this cute candy colored mini backpack.  Glossy PVC and gold tone hardware are the accents that make this backpack a must have.

Calvin Klein Sage Backpack $258.  Sturdy pebble leather exterior with silver toned hardware, this backpack has two interior slip pockets and 1 interior zip pocket to make storage easy.

Michael Kors Rhea Medium Studded Leather Backpack $358.  Everyone needs some stud action whether its on a shoe, jacket, bracelet and yes a backpack.  High shine gold tone studs/hardware and two top zippers will give you the storage edge you deserve this season.

Hayworth Distressed Backpack $898.  Made of the finest Italian leather, this distressed oversized backpack features a stud trim, braided straps and interior zip and slip pockets.

On My Radar: Weekly Beauty, Fashion, And Lifestyle Roundup

In beauty, fashion, lifestyle on August 17, 2018 at 4:00 pm

On My Radar is a roundup of all the things I love, discovered, and that have piqued my interest this week that you should know about.

Peter Thomas Roth 24 K Gold Pure Luxury Lift & Firm Hydra Gel Eye Patches $75.  Firm, lift, calm and brighten in one step with these gold, anti-aging eye patches.  Perfect for when preparing for an event or even before work, these luxurious patches deliver 24k gold, collodial gold, hyaluronic acid, hydrolized collagen, and caffeine which helps with hydration and reduces puffiness.  Great for all skin types.

Farmacy Green Clean Makeup Meltaway Cleansing Balm $34.  Cleanse and nourish your skin at the same time with this amazing cleansing balm.  Perfect for all skin types, this cleanser removes all forms of makeup, including waterproof.  Because no greasy residue left behind, there is no need for a double cleanse.

Rag & Bone Army Cheetah Low Top Sneakers $275.  No footwear collection is complete without animal print.  Update your sneaker game and any outfit you wear with these super cute cheetah print sneakers.

Mango Leather Envelope $59.99.  Show up in style with this envelope clutch.  Made of bovine leather, this clutch is large enough to hold all of the items you need for a night out but small enough to not feel like you are carrying luggage wherever you go.

Aveleda Vinho Verde $6.99.  This medium dry white wine is crisp, light and delicious.  Perfect for a mid day snacking on the balcony and is also a great base for adding your favorite juice for a refreshing spritzer.

Hadley Cheese Knives, Set of 4 $48.  Elevate your flatware collection and serve delicious cheeses (and wine) to your friends or yourself with these beautiful imported handcrafted cheese knives.

Jonathan Adler Canaan Marble Tic-Tac-Toe Set $298.  “Is it modern art or a luxe pastime.  Let your guests decide.”  Decorate your space and change the face of a classic game with the impeccable craftsmanship of this Canaan Marble Tic Tac Toe set.

On My Radar: Weekly Beauty, Fashion and Lifestyle Roundup

In beauty, fashion, lifestyle on August 10, 2018 at 11:00 am

On My Radar is a roundup of all the things I love, discovered, and that have piqued my interest this week that you should know about.

Bite Beauty French Press Lip Gloss.  Rich, creamy and smooth, these coffee inspired lip glosses describe the perfect cup of coffee and are the perfect addition to your lip gloss collection.  Available in 6 sumptuous shades, French Press Lip Gloss is made with coffee butter and arabica cold press coffee oil which keep your lips smooth and conditioned.  These won’t be around long so hurry up and choose from these limited edition colors which describe the perfect flavor of coffee such as Flat White and Salted Caramel (a personal favorite).

Tom Ford Ombre Leather.  Experience how sultry leather notes in a fragrance can be with Tom Ford Ombre Leather.  A “textural scent” with notes of jasmine sambac, black leather, and white moss, this fragrance which comes in a minimalist matte black bottle is bold yet gentle, adventurous and sensual.

Laura Mercier Flawless Fusion Ultra Longwear Concealer.  This lightweight, medium to full coverage concealer hydrates and blurs and it’s fluidity makes application and blending a breeze.  Flawless Fusion doesn’t crease or fade and holds up against 12+ hour days.

Drunk Elephant C Tango Multivitamin Eye Cream.  C Tango eye cream is rich and creamy without being heavy and suffocating, leaving the under eye area smooth, bright and hydrated.  Formulated with five forms of vitamin C and eight peptides, C Tango is great for all skin types and can be used am and pm.

Zara Floral Jacquard Pants and Blazer.  These are the perfect two pieces that look great together or worn separately.  The rich texture and color of the fabric are perfect for the upcoming fall/winter season and can be dressed up or down.  Pair with a loafer or sneaker for a paired down look or with a heel to dress these pieces up.

Alexis Bittar Folded Knot Ring.  NEVER shy away from a beautiful piece of jewelry.  This brushed gold tone ring is bold without being over the top and is the perfect addition to your ring collection.

H&M Wool-Blend Coat.  Although it’s still warm outside, now is a good time to consider what cold weather outerwear pieces you need to add to your wardrobe.  This soft wool belted coat can be one of those pieces that can take you from late fall to early winter.

Modern Alchemy Hyacinth & Bergamot Candle. This beautiful blue marble candle is the perfect pop of color for any room.  In addition to the beauty of the candle, The lingering scent is like that of a cool, gentle ocean breeze that lasts long after the candle stops burning.

World Market Oval Gray Faux Shagreen Katy Desk.  This glamorous desk is the perfect accent to any room in your apartment/home.  With a soft grainy textural finish, deep drawer and gold steel legs, you can use this as a vanity, entryway table, or as a desk in your home office.

These Tools Will Keep Your Wardrobe Looking Like New

In fashion, style on February 25, 2018 at 12:00 pm


Investing in a quality wardrobe is important because it ensures your look is fashion forward, figure flattering, and ensures that you have a multitude of solid style options.
But after this investment, how do you maintain it? How do you ensure your clothes are as perfect as the day you purchased them? By having the proper tools on hand to mend, maintain and prevent clothing from excessive wear and tear.

The following tools can save you money in the long run, helping you to avoid costly repairs or the need to replace what is damaged.

  • Fabric Shaver/Defuzzer.  This battery operated tool provides a safer, more gentle way to remove fuzziness and pilling from your favorite article of clothing in seconds.
  • Lint Roller.  Perfect for occasional lint removal from any article of clothing.  Or couch.  Or car seat.
  • Snag Nab It.  Never again will you have to cut a string from your favorite knits and wovens.  Instead, use this special needle that has a textured end to help reverse unwanted snags and pulls.
  • Small Sewing Kit.  Should include safety pins, needle, thread, etc.  You just never know when you will need to make a small repair while on the go.
  • Double Sided Tape.  To keep the girls from making an unexpected appearance.  Also perfect for pant hems.
  • Neutral Shoe Polish.  Because it should never look like you have actually been kicking rocks.
  • Boot/Shoe Trees. To maintain the shape/integrity of you footwear.
  • Purse Dust Covers/Garment bags.  These storage bags protect your handbag and wardrobe investments from rips, scrapes, scratches and other types of damage when in storage or traveling.
  • Heel Grips/Liners.  You should always purchase shoes that fit however there are some instances where you may get some slippage.  Ball of foot cushions will help alleviate pain you experience on the ball of your foot as well.
  • Steamer/Iron.  For obvious reasons.
  • A good tailor, shoe cobbler and dry cleaner.  A good tailor will be able to correctly alter your garments.  The right shoe cobbler will be able to restore and repair your shoes and a good dry cleaner will know how to properly clean clothing that come in a multitude of fabrics, colors and embellishments.

What are your favorite tools to maintain your wardrobe?

*All items can (with the exception of a tailor, cobbler and dry cleaner) can be purchased on wardrobesupplies.com and containerstore.com.